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Society's motivation in a nutshell.  by Little-rolling-bean Society's motivation in a nutshell.  by Little-rolling-bean
Form what I have experienced:

Loving yourself = arrogant and bad person
Hating yourself = decent and good person

This is what society thinks. Any sign of liking yourself or doing something for yourself, you are considered arrogant, self centered and horrible. And hating yourself you are automatically loved. And people wonder why girls hate themselves. Seriously, first it is this "be confident! You are great!" then next thing it is "Think about others, stop being up yourself!" 

My estimate is that depression in teenagers exists because of this. They are afraid of being judged and shamed if they show any little sign of being confident, so in order to feel better about themselves and please others, they convince themselves that they are worthless. Nobody wants to be a bad person, and nowadays even being proud about yourself means you are :unimpressed:

Well done, society. 

Well, fuck that. I am not going to put up with this BS, I WILL LOVE MYSELF. And if you think I am arrogant because of this, maybe you should look at the teens that are depressed because of your BS. I am NOT a bad person for loving myself, it just means I am confident. I admit my mistakes but instead of being ashamed, I try to fix them so I can be better. Because I love myself, I make a goal to be a better person.

I also hate people who say "making a self support stamp is arrogant". Oh? Would you rather me make suicide journals then? I am sure you would rather that if supporting myself is OH SO HORRIBLE. 

Everyone is a good person (unless they are a bigot, murderer, rapist or a bully) And beating yourself up is not making you a better person, it is just hurting yourself (and also pleasing bigots). 

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:iconhappyfeetaj:
HappyfeetAJ Featured By Owner Dec 1, 2014  New member Hobbyist Artist
I'm both girls at points :3
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:iconcoloredmew:
ColoredMew Featured By Owner Dec 7, 2014  Student Digital Artist
me too
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:iconspotpeltthewarrior69:
SpotpeltTheWarrior69 Featured By Owner Dec 1, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Sometimes I'm the girl on the top,
Sometimes I'm the girl on the bottom..
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:iconwinterswhite:
WintersWhite Featured By Owner Nov 24, 2014  Student General Artist
I used to be the second person, always insulting myself to be edgy. Now I'm not like that anymore. 
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:iconlittle-rolling-bean:
Little-rolling-bean Featured By Owner Nov 24, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Good :D
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WishDancer345 Featured By Owner Nov 23, 2014
I don't hate myself, I say that I do because society is stupid.
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Imagineology Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
I like myself. And I pretty much stopped caring about my "reputation" in the 4th grade, when I realized that 1000 years from now nobody will even care I wore purple pants once.
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Little-rolling-bean Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
so true!
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Disney-LynxAJTTR Featured By Owner Oct 24, 2014  Student Digital Artist
Society's messed up ._.
Especially hipsters, they are just like, "IF YOU LIKE THIS YOU ARE BAD AND STUPID"
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Little-rolling-bean Featured By Owner Oct 24, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
They are bigots
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