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Society's motivation in a nutshell.  by Little-rolling-bean Society's motivation in a nutshell.  by Little-rolling-bean
Form what I have experienced:

Loving yourself = arrogant and bad person
Hating yourself = decent and good person

This is what society thinks. Any sign of liking yourself or doing something for yourself, you are considered arrogant, self centered and horrible. And hating yourself you are automatically loved. And people wonder why girls hate themselves. Seriously, first it is this "be confident! You are great!" then next thing it is "Think about others, stop being up yourself!" 

My estimate is that depression in teenagers exists because of this. They are afraid of being judged and shamed if they show any little sign of being confident, so in order to feel better about themselves and please others, they convince themselves that they are worthless. Nobody wants to be a bad person, and nowadays even being proud about yourself means you are :unimpressed:

Well done, society. 

Well, fuck that. I am not going to put up with this BS, I WILL LOVE MYSELF. And if you think I am arrogant because of this, maybe you should look at the teens that are depressed because of your BS. I am NOT a bad person for loving myself, it just means I am confident. I admit my mistakes but instead of being ashamed, I try to fix them so I can be better. Because I love myself, I make a goal to be a better person.

I also hate people who say "making a self support stamp is arrogant". Oh? Would you rather me make suicide journals then? I am sure you would rather that if supporting myself is OH SO HORRIBLE. 

Everyone is a good person (unless they are a bigot, murderer, rapist or a bully) And beating yourself up is not making you a better person, it is just hurting yourself (and also pleasing bigots). 

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:iconarctosanima:
ArctosAnima Featured By Owner Sep 13, 2014  Student General Artist
I hate myself...because of society....
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:iconmorlord:
Morlord Featured By Owner 13 hours ago
Same here...
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:iconarctosanima:
ArctosAnima Featured By Owner 12 hours ago  Student General Artist
:iconyuicryplz: :iconsadhugplz:
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:iconlittle-rolling-bean:
Little-rolling-bean Featured By Owner Sep 13, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Hate society not yourself.
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Morlord Featured By Owner 13 hours ago
Sadly i can't do this. I know that it's true.
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ArctosAnima Featured By Owner Sep 13, 2014  Student General Artist
Well if ya know anything about how psychology works, I'm actually kinda fucked.


I have been verbally/emotionally abused by my family, AND bullied MASSIVELY, since I was 5 years old. I had no perspective of the world and simply took in the negativity..it's burned into my mind and I have been unable to change my self-loathing mindset.
I have a severe inferiority complex, as well as Major Despressive Disorder.


And that is the SHORT version of what I could say. I'd rather not burden you with paragraphs of my bs. But, thank you. <3
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Little-rolling-bean Featured By Owner Sep 13, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Thats horrible. You obviously did not deserve that abuse. Child abuse and abusing family is so wrong. You should not blame yourself for their shittiness. 
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ArctosAnima Featured By Owner Sep 13, 2014  Student General Artist
Well, I've only come to the realization recently with the help of my Psychology professor.

But in general, the bullying is what really got me and what my memories/hate are more centered on...
I mean, I don't think of myself as ugly, fat, the most disgusting thing to live, useless, pointless, worthless, stupid, talentless, boring, undeserving of happiness or love, for nothing...it doesn't just come out of nowhere, even with my timid introverted personality and family history of Depression..
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Little-rolling-bean Featured By Owner Sep 13, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Bullying made me angry. I don't wanna be stepped on again for being the person who tries to please others. Thats why I am here today. Just said "screw this, I won't try and please you pricks anymore. I will only please myself and the good people, but I cannot please everyone". 

Still, they are not in the right. How is them being so nasty to you making them in the right? You are making them win. They are dickheads that should not take your happiness away from you. They are wrong, you are right (expect for the part where you think those things about yourself cos it aint true)
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ArctosAnima Featured By Owner Sep 13, 2014  Student General Artist
I wish I was like you. I simply don't have the personality to stand up and stomp back on them like that. Believe me I have tried, but I have such an issue with confidence it's not even funny.

I'm not trying to let them win, but it's difficult. The sad thing is, I moved away from my hometown over a year ago and I still think badly...yaaaay for depression and inferiority disordersssss...


But really, thank you for being so kind...I didn't write this to get attention but I feel like you might think so, or that others will think that...I really hate when people think I'm an attention whore..I never actually get into this stuff on purpose ;n;
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